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Feeling Trapped? Isolated? Betrayed?
Noone can prepare for the constant lying, the smear campaigns, and the isolation. You may feel like you’re up against the whole world (like I did). But millions are going through the same thing.
You’re NOT alone. But without support, it’ll feel like an uphill battle.
It's Time To Get Out
1) Relief For Victims of Narcissists
One of the things we’ve covered time and time again is that narcissists are relentless.
They lack empathy, and they often go to the victim’s support system (parents, friends, etc) and turn them against the victim. It’s extremely isolating.
Luckily, there’s a safe space for you. Some just listen in. Some like sharing their story. Others don’t want to turn on their camera. There’s support for you here, the way you want it. We meet every week on Wednesdays.
2) High Conflict Divorce Services
A practicing Family Law Judge told me there’s not enough training for recognizing this kind of abuse in court.
We’ve developed a service that helps lawyers get to truth in high conflict divorce. We analyze phone records, credit card history, and other pieces of evidence to paint a picture of all the lies with data.
Best of all? Our goal is to help you settle OUT OF COURT. A divorce case is a playground for high conflict. It’s time to get out.
Frequently Asked Questions
The truth lies in data. We know how how it feels to be in your shoes. It’s like dealing with a human alien. But others are too easily fooled by the narcissist’s ploys.
Luckily, data reveals truth. We use software and other processes to demonstrate one party’s systematic lies. Doing this the traditional way would mean hiring a forensic accountant or team of paralegals (yea, that’s a lot of money). We bring the power of analytics to your lawyer, so they can advocate for your case.
Oh, and one more thing: instead of trying to rack up fees by keeping you in court, we see settlement as a positive legal outcome. A high conflict case can cost tens of thousands of dollars. By settling, you avoid years in court and the expensive cost of litigation.
We work with your lawyer to get phone records, financial history, and other pieces of evidence to paint a picture of abuse with data.
Then, we run that data against our software and other tools to produce meaningful insights. One lie may seem benign, but when you can see the big picture, the data becomes really valuable.
What’s good about our software? It’s built completely in-house, meaning that everything is customizable to your needs.
We’re currently only working with people who have a lawyer or some form of legal counsel. If this is you, click here to learn more about our services. We’re excited at the possibility of working with you and your lawyer!
If you don’t have legal representation yet, join our support group. It’s extremely validating to talk to people who’re going through the same thing. There’s power in knowing you’re not alone.
I have a book on narcissism in the works. I believe it brings a unique approach and value, based 100% from my personal experiences and evidence.
People have different opinions and conclusions regarding why narcissists do what they do, their psychological diagnosis, and whether or not they can ever change, but there seems to be widespread consensus that narcissists tend to target certain personality types, commonly known as empaths. Empaths tend to be mirror image of narcissists, and narcissists find the allure of such challenge (and drama) simply irresistible. The narcissist despises and tries to destroy the empath for what they stand for: independence, transparency, honesty, self-awareness, and the uncanny ability to stand by their words.
This book will be fully transparent with every aspect of my life. It’s my responsibility to present the whole truth. I’m taking a radically different approach; rather than nitpicking information that only shows me in a positive light, I want to lay out the evidence in its complete form. I believe this approach works best because:
- It is the exact opposite of what a narcissist would do. Narcissists are secretive and covert. It’s only fair that I expose myself and not shy away from anything.
- There’s no moral or ethical grey area. Rather than projecting onto others (narcissists or their accomplices), I am simply revealing my own life and experiences, backed by data.
- I have all the rights to have myself fully and independently fact checked (repeatedly, if need be) to ensure completeness of the data and events. Fact checking is not in the narcissist’s dictionary.
So, What Is A Narcissist?
There are many lists out there that describe what a narcissist is. We’ll be pulling 9 diagnostic criteria from the DSM-V, which is put out by the American Psychological Association.
1- A grandiose sense of self-importance
2- Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3- Believing that they are “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
4- Requiring excessive admiration
5- A sense of entitlement
6- Being interpersonally exploitative
7- Lacking empathy
8- Often being envious of others or believing that others are envious of them
9- Showing arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
What does this really look like? We’ve broken this down in one of our recent blog posts. We showcase exactly how a narcissistic personality functions and the specific strategies they use to isolate the victim. And then, we demonstrate how these “smear campaigns” can be exposed through data, bringing true validation to the victim and forcing the narcissist to back down from their high conflict behaviors.